Tuesday, May 11, 2021

WORRIES: WHAT IFs & HOW WILLs ???


He leads me. He tells me what i need to know when i need to know it. He will do the right thing at the right time. Since i know His provision is timely, i can enjoy the present.
So, don't worry about tomorrow, because tomorrow will have its own worries. Each day has enough trouble of its own (Matthew 6:34).
He promises a lamp unto our feet, not a crystal ball into the future. We do not need to know what will happen tomorrow.

We only need to know He leads us and "we will find grace to help us when we need it" (Heb 4:16).

Monday, May 11, 2020

Taking Leisurely Walks

Taking leisurely walks in the nature parks and gardens around my house has become a part of my regular routine during Covid-19 pandemic.

Sharing a few photos and an inspiration on being awed by nature's beauty.


WORSHIP ME in the beauty of holiness. I created beauty to declare the existence of My holy Being. A magnificent rose, a hauntingly glorious sunset, ocean splendour - all these things were meant to proclaim My Presence in the world. Most people rushed pass these proclamations without giving them a second thought.
How precious are my children who are awed by nature's beauty; this opens them up to My holy Presence....The whole earth is full of My radiant Beauty - My Glory!
- Jesus Calling.

Monday, April 22, 2019

The Favor of the Lord (Psalm 90:14 & 17)

Satisfy us in the morning with your unfailing love, that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days... May the favour of the Lord our God rest on us; establish the work of our hands for us - yes, establish the work of our hands.
 
JW Marriot @ Paradise Valley, USA (April 2019)

Sunday, December 30, 2018

A YEAR-END REFLECTION: OUR LIFE IS A LEASEHOLD

The end marks a new beginning!

As we get older, time seems to pass by more quickly. One of the hot discussion topics in Singapore this year is the residual value of their homes as they get older. Singaporeans are worried that their flat will decline in value and eventually become worthless at the end of their 99-year lease.

TRAVEL: Our travels in 2018 took us to the US, UK and Japan. We received warm hospitality in every places that we visited. It was particularly thrilling to experience the sakura blossoms in spring and the bountiful apple trees of Central Pennsylvania in autumn. They are a good reminder of the seasons of life… there is a time to sow, there is a time to wait, and there is a time to reap. But nowadays, travelling for my wife and I is less of seeing new places and more of meeting people, especially to catch up with old friends and ex-students.
 
LEGACY: In March 2018, I attended a symposium in Orlando, US, which was held in honour of a real estate professor who is retiring. Those in academia would attribute his prolific publication record as legendary. To me, he was also a friend and a mentor. I owe him a lifetime of gratitude. Using the metaphor “dwarfs standing on the shoulder of giants”, he was the giant and I was the dwarf.
 
EXPIRY DATE & TERMINAL VALUE: If you think about it, many things in life will also expire in time. Cars have a 10-year life span in Singapore. Batteries will eventually go flat. Even our tenured position will end one day!

Can we top-up the number of years in our life? Just like topping up the lease by paying a premium. Better still, could we exchange the leasehold tenure for a perpetual freehold estate? But alas, our life is a leasehold. Despite modern medicine, we will die sooner or later. From an appraisal viewpoint, what would be our terminal value?

FINISH WELL: My aim is to run with endurance the race that God has set for me and to finish well. I was enlightened by the sharing of a friend and respectable professor, who is also Deputy Vice-Chancellor of a UK university: “It is in serving others that makes life worthwhile. This is my mission over the next few years.”


Below are some added wisdom from friends around the world:

*** “Valar Morghulis” and “Valar Dohaeris” are phrases from the Game of Thrones, a TV series I watched. “Valar Morghulis” says our life is a leasehold. “Valar Dohaeris” is the response phrase to “Valar Morghulis”, meaning “all men must serve”. Only death can pay for life, but the value of life lies in which we choose to serve. – Research Fellow, USA

*** It is interesting to value our life as leasehold. We do not know the leasehold tenure nor the terminal value, but we can try to maximize the value of our life by making every day wonderful, just like enjoying periodic cash flows in the DCF model. I see happiness in life from the little things, it can be some delicious food, can be the smile of our loved ones, can be the warm sunshine, and can be some peacetime at home. – Professor, China

*** You are right that life is like a leasehold. As for the question of terminal value, I think we should not only count the ‘rent’ but also the positive externality on others, like all the good things I have learnt and benefited from you. – Professor, Hong Kong

*** The lifespan account is the only account you debit continuously without knowing how much is in the account. – Professor, Germany

*** We are on the same page with committing our lives for meaningful purpose. My reference is the founder of the Scout Movement – Robert Baden-Powell. He said “Always leave this world a little better than you found it”. – Architect, Singapore

*** I lost my classmate recently and he is happily with lord now. His departure makes me value what i do , what i eat, what i experience every day as we do not know when our lease will expire. – Property Consultant, S'pore

*** A poignant reminder for all of us to remember good friends and mentors. Your reminder that that our lives is a mere leasehold and that the most important thing is to have lived a good live life and bring joy and memories to all our loved ones, is so true. As we look forward towards our remaining years, I will have to constantly remind myself that our friends and contacts are the most important thing after all. I am glad that our path have crossed in some meaningful ways I hope. – CEO, S'pore

*** As we get on with life, every passing day is a blessing and joy. It is the people like yourself who can enriches ones life experience. The built environment will always be there but not the people and yet it is the people around us that make the greatest difference. – Valuer, S'pore

*** Indeed, our life is a leasehold. And when we embrace that perspective more and more, a lot of our everyday struggles and troubles seemingly become small and fade away. We learn to appreciate the everyday things that we often take for granted - time spent with loved ones, family and friends. - MD, S'pore

*** We must build up our riches in heaven and walk the best path that we can while on this earth – Medical Doctor, S’pore

Wednesday, December 27, 2017

25th Wedding Anniversary


As 2017 draws to a close, may I wish you a great year ahead.

“I am getting married!” was the subject heading of an email I received recently from a former student. She is not the only one who got married this year… I know of several other former students who also tied the nuptial knot this year.
 
2017 is also a special year for us. It is our 25th wedding anniversary. We are thankful for the many good memories; we have been to interesting places we never dreamed of… This year, we visited Florida (Jan), Hong Kong (Apr), Switzerland (Jun), Taiwan (Jul) and Sydney (Oct). That adds up to nearly 80,000 km!
Florida (Jan 2017)
Marriage is not the only milestones in one’s life. There are other significant milestones, such as:
  • the first day in university;
  • the last exam;
  • getting the first job;
  • receiving the first pay check;
  • collecting the keys to the house;
  • the first promotion;
  • becoming a parent;
  • retiring; and so on…
Taichung (Jul 2017)
Milestones are important because they are the fruits of our hard work; they encourage us; and they mark a new phase/season in our life. It is therefore important to celebrate milestones; lest our “life become one long ride without stops to enjoy the scenery”. So I am reminded that we should not be  hurried to reach our destination... don't settle on snapping photos to share on Facebook. Instead, remember to pause, ponder, enjoy the panoramic view, make friends, and smell the flowers along the way.
Sydney (Oct 2017)

Mankind has over the years erected monuments & memorials for many reasons. Personally, I collect small stones/pebbles and place them in visible places around my house/office. They serve as a constant reminder for me to:
(1) be thankful (look back) - count my blessings,

(2) be humble (look up) – if I have seen further than others, it is by standing upon the shoulders of giants, Isaac Newton; and
(3) be hopeful (look forward) – past victories paved the way for future success.

May your 2018 be filled with abundant grace, joy and peace.
 
Switzerland (June 2017)

Saturday, December 3, 2016

An Anonymous "Thank You" Letter

Over the years, I have received many thank you notes from my students. As I was clearing my room today, I stumbled across some of them. I was greatly encouraged as I read through the old letters and emails from appreciative students. They reminded me that my work matters. Teachers have the wonderful privilege of planting seeds in young hearts and minds. 

Below is an interesting letter I received from an anonymous student. It was a timely note as I stepped up to be Vice-Dean (Academic) of the school.

Dear Professor,
I do not know you and you do not know me. But I had heard many stories of how you tried so hard to fight for us Real Estate students. More often than not, your efforts tend to go unappreciated. So here I am expressing my gratitude for all your relentless efforts in building a strong real estate brand name in the industry and garnering more prestigious internship roles and job opportunities for all of us. I will be sure to support DRE when I make it big in future. I can literally feel your passion for DRE. Please keep your spirits and I'm sure more people will be able to feel your passion and join you in building up the brand name of RE. =)
Anonymous
June 2016

Monday, November 14, 2016

A Long, Winding & Steep Journey

I am delighted to share that I have been recently promoted to full professorship in NUS. The promotion will be backdated to July 2016. I am humbled by the many congratulatory notes and kind words from friends, colleagues, and ex-students.

How do I feel? Happy and relieved at the same time. Happy for reaching a summit in the academic profession. Relieved because the road I have traveled, from my PhD (1995-1998) to promotion and tenure (2006) and full professorship (2016), has been a long and steep one.
Florida (2015)
Looking back, I have never felt that I was ever walking alone. I am truly grateful for the love and support of my family, friends, colleagues and students, and especially my endearing (and enduring) wife who walked with me and cheered me on each step of the way. Above all, I knew God was with me all the way and His grace is sufficient for me.

I have been reflecting on the experience. It has been a long and winding journey, but an enjoyable and educational one nonetheless. A few valuable lessons learnt along the way:
  • “do not allow adversity to rob me of my joy”;
  • “work hard and give thanks in all circumstances”;
  • “stay calm and enjoy the scenery while on a detour”;
  • “it doesn’t matter how slow you go so long as you don’t stop”;
  • “no journey is too long with the right company”; 
  • “stay humble: do not let success go to your head”; 
  • “in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of other
  • Do not judge people by their peak of excellence, but by the distance they have travelled from the point where they started” (H.W. Beecher). 

In my quiet contemplation, I am reminded of the inspiring sculpture, “Way of Life” by Jonathan Clarke in the Cathedral of Ely, England. The sculpture depicts life’s many unexpected twists and turns as we journey on the winding road from darkness to light.  Highlighting its symbolic impact, the Cathedral of Ely noted: Like the journey of faith, its path is irregular and unpredictable; and just as the journey is sometimes hard, sometimes joyful, the surface texture and colour also vary.”

Yet, I am aware that this is not the end. No one can stay on the summit forever; the journey must continue... There are new places to travel and more peaks to conquer. I will remain faithful to my calling; be an inspiration and a light to those around me - first, burning brightly as a candle on a stand and second, reflecting Gods' radiance as a mirror. "Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.” (Matthew 5:16).
 
Once again, thank you so much for your blessing of friendship.

 

Thursday, October 13, 2016

Jonah's Confession

“And he said to them, “I am a Hebrew, and I fear the Lord, the God of heaven, who made the sea and the dry land.” Jonah 1:9 ESV
 
An interesting thought from the verse above is how will the world respond today to an honest confession of a Christian? Imagine the scenario of you boarding a cruise boat and introducing yourself to the captain and his sailing crew as a God fearing Christian! What impact would this have on them? How would they respond to your proclamation? In all likelihood, they will be politely disinterested.   
Image result for jonah and the sailors
 
In Jonah 1:10, the sailors' response to Jonah was as follows, Then the men were exceedingly afraid and said to him, “What is this that you have done!" For the men knew that he was fleeing from the presence of the LORD, because he told them (ESV). Their respond suggests that they had a spiritual awakening, i.e. they saw there is God, he is alive, he is a God of purpose, and a God of wrath. R.T. Kendal, in his exposition on Jonah, wrote that this story shows the inseparable connection between the transcendent power of God and the message of the church.
 
Can Jonah claims credit for their spiritual awakening? No, on the contrary, Jonah was not preaching the truth voluntarily or consciously. He was forced to make his confession. He was found out! RT Kendal further wrote that we are not going to see such an awakening simply because we preach who God is - there must be more! Put it another way, had Jonah made this confession without the storm at sea such confession would have been utterly meaningless; just like you introducing yourself when you boarded the cruise boat.

We must see God's timing. In other words, it is utterly folly to think that we can resurrect certain sermons or methods of the past and suppose they are going to produce results again.  We need to see that the message Jonah preached was timed in such a way that, had he made the confession earlier, it would have been meaningless. It was given at a particular moment. There was the wind; there was the casting of the lots. All these things coalesced and there is no earthly way we can make these things coalesce and bring them about. The timing has to be exactly right.

Note that Jonah did not get glory because of this awakening. What happened on the boat was despite of Jonah. There is a sense in which Jonah had nothing to do with it. Indeed, just because the sailors encountered God, this does not justify Jonah's disobedience and running away from God. The greatest lesson we have to learn from Romans 8:28 is this: merely because something is made right does not mean it was right... we tend to justify ourselves by saying that our disobedience was justified simply because we profited.

 
Source: Jonah - An Exposition by R.T Kendall
 
 

Thursday, December 24, 2015

The Ebenezer Stone... Three Important Lessons (1 Samuel 7:12)


 "Then Samuel took a stone and set it up between Mizpah and Shen and called its name Ebenezer; for he said, “till now, the Lord has helped us…" 
 
Today, I received my new laptop, a Lenovo T250, which was ordered a few weeks ago... Since today is Christmas eve, I will consider this as my Christmas present, unwrapped early. For the  opening ceremony, I would like to start using this new computer by making a blog entry on honouring God. Based on a bible passage that I have been meditating on recently, it concerns the Ebenezer Stone which Samuel erected after a successful battle with the Philistines.   

The background to this verse:
 
I. A long time has passed (some 20 years), and all the house of Israel lamented after the Lord (7:2).

Note that since 4:1, we have not read about Samuel; he was not mentioned till now… as if he was unconcerned (which is probably not the case). More likely, Samuel’s labours among the people are not mentioned until the time is ripe. Often, a lot of our good and hard works remain unseen and unmentioned; they remain in the background until the appointed time.
 
II. When he perceived that the house of Israel was ready, Samuel exhorted them to:
  1. Return to the LORD with all their heart – this involves putting away the foreign gods and directing their heart to the LORD and serve him only. 
  2. Gather at Mizpah for a leaders’ retreat – for dedication, fasting, prayer & repentance…

III. The Philistines mistook the general meeting (for repentance and prayer) to be a rendezvous for war.
So, they decided to invade Israel first. Henry Matthew added:

…they had no just cause for this suspicion; but those that seek to do mischief to others will be forward to imagine that others design mischief to them.” 
... how evil sometimes seems to come out of good; The religious meeting of the Israelites at Mizpah brought trouble upon them..., which may perhaps tempted them to wish they had stayed at home and to blame Samuel for calling them together; often we may decide to walk in God’s way and yet meet with distress; often when sinners begin to repent and reform, they can expect Satan to muster all his force against them, and set his instruments on work to oppose and discourage them.”
... they were here unarmed, unprepared for war - they came together to fast and pray, not to fight, and the only weapons they brought along were prayers and tears… Thus, Israel could never be threatened more seasonably than at this time, when they were repenting and praying, nor could they have been better prepared to receive the enemy; nor could the Philistines have acted more impolitely than to make war upon Israel at this time, when they were making their peace with God.” 
 
IV. Israel cleaves closely to Samuel in distress; though he was no military man, nor ever celebrated as a mighty man of valour, yet, being afraid of the Philistines, for whom they thought themselves an unequal match, the Israelites engaged Samuel’s prayers for them: Cease not to cry unto the Lord our God for us (7:8) 
 
V. Samuel intercedes with God for them, and does it by sacrifice. (7:9)
 
VI. God gave a gracious answer to Samuel’s prayer (7:9): The Lord heard him. Israel had the pleasure of triumphing over their oppressors. They pursued the Philistines... How soon did they find the benefit of their repentance, and reformation, and return to God! Now that they are engaged with God, none of their enemies can stand before him.

Samuel erected a thankful memorial of this victory, (1) to the glory of God, and (2) for the encouragement of Israel. Interestingly, the place where this memorial was set up was the same where, 20 years before, the Israelites were beaten before the Philistines (4:1).



Now, the intention of Samuel in erecting the Ebenezer stone is clear: 
If ever the people’s hard hearts should lose the impressions of this providence, this stone would either revive the remembrance of it, and make them thankful, or remain a standing witness against them for their unthankfulness. 

Three lessons to remember:
 
1. That we should often review our past mercies

All have received mercies in abundance, which we ought from time to time to review, in order to impress a sense of them the more deeply on our minds. For the lack of this, how many mercies are forgotten! And what a loss do we sustain by means of our forgetfulness!
  • Blessings that are unnoticed are no more to us than they are to the brute creation: but if we bring them frequently to our remembrance, we have frequently in the retrospect a sweeter taste of them than we had in the actual possession.
Let us learn to pass over no mercy without labouring to imprint it on our minds, and to retain the remembrance of it to our dying hour. - Charles Simeon
 

2. That we should especially view the hand of God in them

And to whom can we trace all our mercies, but to God? Look at our temporal mercies; 
  • the time, and place of our birth, when the light of the Gospel was shining all around us - our preservation during the helpless state of infancy;
  • the many deliverances, seen, and unseen, which we have experienced since;
  • the blessings of health and abundance.  
View but the last year (2015), and see how many have been plunged into deep distress, from which you are exempt; or been called away into the eternal world, whilst you are left with protracted opportunities of working out your salvation… For who is it that has made you to differ?

Will I, or can I, trace these blessings to my own superior wisdom, or goodness, or strength? Surely,  not. Humbly, I acknowledge the hand of God in them, and say, “Hitherto hath the Lord helped me.” 
 

3. That we should make our experience of past mercies the ground of expecting all that we can need from God in future

From what we have received “hitherto,” we know what to expect henceforthAnd so should the memorials that are raised in our hearts:
 
“Thou hast been my help; therefore under the shadow of thy wings will I rejoice [Psalms 63:7.]:”

"Because the Lord hath inclined his ear unto me, therefore will I call upon him as long as I live [Psalms 116:2.].”
 
This is the key purpose of preserving memorials of past mercies in our minds! What holy confidence will it introduce into the soul, and what a happy anticipation even of eternal blessedness! Only let the “Ebenezer” which Samuel erected teach us this, and we shall ourselves raise in due time a similar memorial in the realms of bliss.


source: LAB, Henry Matthew, Charles Simeon

Monday, December 14, 2015

Chronophage - The Time Eater

"Basically I view time as not on your side. He'll eat up every minute of your life, and as soon as one has gone he's salivating for the next."

Year-end Reflection 

 
Dec 2015: Another year is passing away.... Although not everything we had resolved to do at the start of the year have been accomplished; although we encountered trials along the way; and although the economic outlook remains uncertain over the horizon, we can still find reasons to give thanks.
 
We do have a good life: I am truly blessed with a wonderful wife. We live in a private apartment, we enjoyed doing simple things together. We are healthy… physically, emotionally, socially and financially. Job-wise, I find meaning in what I do... I love to do research, teach and inspire my students, who are really the hope and future of the nations. All in all, we are happy and humbly grateful for God's protection and grace.
 
We were away on sabbatical: 4 months in Cambridge (Aug -Dec 2014) and 5 months in Florida (Jan - May 2015). What does one do during sabbatical? R&R! Intellectually, R&R stands for Reading and Research. At a deeper level, R&R also stands for Rest and Reflect. During our sabbatical, we met many acquaintances and made new friends. We tried new things, new experiences. We also travelled to many cities, such as Maastricht in Netherlands, Brussels & Bruges in Belgium, London, Manchester & Reading in England, Edinburgh in Scotland, Boston and several interesting places in Florida, USA.
 
What inspired us? In reflection, there are indeed many things we could share on what inspired us. Cambridge is a stunningly beautiful college town. You can easily be awed by its rich history; imagine dining at The Eagle pub where Crick and Watson interrupted patrons’ lunchtime (in Feb 1953) to announce that they had discovered “the secret of life” (i.e. how DNA carries genetic information); or visiting the Wren Library to look at the handwritten notes of Sir Isaac Newton; or peeping into the field notes of Charles Darwin at the Sedwick Museum.
 
In Florida, we were inspired by the natural serenity of God’s creation and by the friendliness of those we met. I was thrilled to visit many farms, which taught us many life lessons, such as not to underestimate the potential of a small seed; the importance of patience and hard work; and appreciating the seasons of life… particularly, there is a season to sow, there is a season to wait, and there is a season to reap. 

Where am I in the seasons of life? 2015 is also a very special year. It marks Singapore's 50th year of independence. Most Singaporeans will also remember 2015 for the passing of Mr Lee Kuan Yew, the founding father and chief architect of modern Singapore. Born in 1965, I also celebrated my 50th birthday this year. If you take age 20-35 as spring, 35-50 as summer, 50-65 as autumn, 65-80 as winter, then I am at the stage where summer has just passed. So, here I am, staring into the autumn season of my life… reflecting the season of transition, the changing colors of autumn leaves (and white hairs) can make one more contemplative on life... While this is the season for gathering the harvests and for giving thanks, it is also a time for preparing for the coming hibernation of winter.
 
The Corpus Clock: The continual passing of time and cycle of life and death reminded me of an interesting landmark in Cambridge UK. The Corpus Clock is a large sculptural clock at street level, looking out over the busy King’s Parade. The dominating visual feature of the clock is a grim-looking metal sculpture of an insect similar to a locust. This beast is called the Chronophage (literally "time eater" in Greek). It moves its mouth, appearing to "eat up" the seconds as they pass, and occasionally it "blinks" in seeming satisfaction. The creature's constant motion produces an eerie grinding sound and the hour is tolled by the sound of a chain clanking into a small wooden coffin hidden in the back of the clock. Below the clock is an inscription from 1 John 2:17: mundus transit et. concupiscentia eius ("the world passeth away, and the lust thereof").
 
According to Taylor (the benefactor), the clock is entirely accurate only once every five minutes. The rest of the time, the pendulum may seem to catch or stop, and the lights may lag or, then, race to get ahead. This erratic motion reflects life's "irregularity". Conceived as a work of public art, the Chronophage reminds viewers in a dramatic way of the inevitable passing of time. It is deliberately designed to be "terrifying". Taylor shared, "Basically I view time as not on your side. He'll eat up every minute of your life, and as soon as one has gone he's salivating for the next."
 
Time can pass us by swiftly without our knowing: Below are two photos we took, then and now. Then was in 1997, now is in 2014. Two photos of the same couple taken in front of the same building, but 18 years apart. Note that I am wearing the same navy blue jacket, although its color has faded and the padding worn out. Thankfully, we are still smiling after all these years! Life has been good to us!
 
                   
Some say, life after 50 is a downhill: I do not believe this. Instead, I believe there is more to life! While the visual image of the Chronophage eating away time can be hypnotically disturbing and the claim that the world (and its lust) is passing away is true, it is incomplete. The second part of the verse was left out: “but the one who does the will of God lives forever.” One inspiring biblical character is Caleb who continues to thrive at the age of 85. During our sabbatical, we got to know many who are still going strong in their autumn/winter seasons. Their stories serve as a lesson for us to never release God’s promises; never retire from serving God; never resigned to the fate of time, and never retreat from the enemy!

 So for this Christmas: We choose to look back with gratitude, to enjoy the present, and to look forward with hope. Instead of letting the Chronophage chew away our precious moments, we intentionally take time out to celebrate life. Instead of running mindlessly, we find time in this festivity period to remind ourselves of God’s provision, and to say “thank you” to those who have been a blessing to us in many different ways.
 
Indeed, your friendship has been a blessing to us. Thank you. May the holidays become a special time of spiritual enrichment, personal renewal, and genuine gratitude.[1]
Photo: on a less-travelled road in Florida (2015)
Our prayer as we look forward to 2016: Lord, you have been good to us, you have been gracious; you have been faithful meeting our needs; Lord, it’s so plain to see. You have been good to us. We have been given much that we can’t even begin to thank you… And still, we believe there is more. So, we open our hands to receive all that your love has installed for us,
miracles wonders blessings unnumbered, love never-ending!

[1] References: Don Moen, Charles Swindoll, Wikipedia.