DOODLECHAMPS! Singapore

DOODLECHAMPS! Singapore is a fantastic competition to discover the coolest and most talented creative doodlers in Singapore. After a challenging nationwide search, 24 of the most talented 9 to 11 year olds competed in the DOODLECHAMPS! Singapore TV show. For more information on the competition, visit: http://www.doodlechamps.com/tv-show .

Watch trailer of the show below!

After surviving rounds of elimination, our godson has managed to secure a place in the grand final. He won the semi-final round with total points of 38 (out of a max of 40)! In the grand final, which will be telecast on 31 Dec 2009, 8.30 - 9.00 pm on Octo TV, Jaye Young will meet another contestant to determine who will emerge as the Singapore DOODLECHAMP. The winner will represent Singapore to compete against winners in the other countries. Please tune in to watch and support Jaye Young!

Congrats JayeYoung!! Go for it!

Below are a sample of two drawings by Jaye Young (done under extreme pressure of time and competitive environment) during the earlier rounds of the competition plus the judges' comments.

DODDLE DUEL

"Jaye Young, I love the fact that you took the squiggle and put all your characters outside this squiggles and these squiggles became the dance for your bees." - Ketna

"... you are clear in your illustration, ... fully utilising the doodle lines." - Farid

"... you have a special eye, ... great technical skills and lots of imagination." - Caroline

DOODLE TAG

"Jaye Young, ... 1, 2, and 3 a new species of dinosaurs are born." - Caroline
"I love your stuff... clear lines." - Farid
"... that dinosaur is so cuddly, as though it's stealing chocolates." - Ketna

The Christmas Story

At a recent party my wife and I hosted, we started with an ice-breaker. Essentially, our guests are encouraged to pair up with someone they have not met before, introduce themselves and complete the following statements:

(1) I GET INSPIRED BY .... (2) ONE ESPECIALLY PROFOUND MOMENT OF INSPIRATION IN MY LIFE WAS WHEN ....

Each of us are inspired by different things. Some are inspired by nature, such as watching a gorgeous sunset, or just taking a leisurely stroll. Some are inspired by beauty, such as admiring a painting by Rembrant. Yet others are inspired by an uplifting book, a stimulating lecture or dialogue, or the beautiful lyrics of a catchy song. Since today is Christmas, let me share my inspiration from the Christmas story. The text comes from Philippians 2:6-8.

Think of yourselves the way Christ Jesus thought of himself. He had equal status with God but didn't think so much of himself. He had equal status with God but didn't think much of himself that he had to cling to the advantages of that status no matter what. Not at all. When the time came, he set aside the privileges of diety and took on the status of a slave, became human! Having become human, he stayed human. It was an incredibly humbling process. He didn't claim special privileges. Instead, he lived a selfless, obedient life and then died a selfless, obedient death - and the worst kind of death at that: crucifixion.

- Philippians 2:6-8 (The Message)

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What inspires me most about the Christmas story is the incarnation of Jesus Christ. Our pastor highlights that the Christmas story did not begin in the manger; but in heaven. The Son of God assumed a human body and took on human nature. He set aside his divine rights to glory and power and became a human being who is subjected to place, time and many other human limitations. In short, Jesus choose to leave the comfort of heaven and the rich fellowship with God to come down to earth.

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So, why is this story inspiring? First, Jesus wasn't forced into it. He had a choice, and he choose to leave home! Second, his choice goes against our culture of "not losing out", or in Singapore, we call it the "kiasu" mentality. Today, most of us are driven by upward mobility, ie. upgrading and improving one's status. To leave heaven for earth, to exchange divinity for humanity, isn't that a big downgrade?

To appreciate the significance of this Christmas story, one needs to ask, "What propelled the Son of God to do so?" What was his purpose?

The Bible says that Jesus came to show us the way to God. What made his humanity unique was his freedom from sin. In his full humanity, Jesus showed us everything about God's character that can be conveyed in human nature terms.

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In the conclusion of his book, Come before Winter, Charles Swindoll shared the story of a farmer who became jaded in his faith. Skeptical, he chose to isolate himself from others and live out his days without the hassles connected with people involvements. It took a never-to-be-forgotten experience in the dead of winter to jar the man free from his self-imposed cynicism and draw him back to the One from whom he had distanced himself for so many years.

One raw winter night, the man heard an irregular thumping sound against the kitchen storm door. He went to a window and watched as tiny, shivering sparrows, attracted to the evident warmth inside, beat in vain against the glass.

Touched, the farmer bundled up and trudged through fresh snow to open the barn for the struggling birds. He turned on the lights, tossed some hay in a corner, and sprinkled a trail of saltine crackers to direct them to the barn. But the sparrows, which has scattered in all directions when he emerged from the house, still hid in the darkness, afraid of him.

He tried various tactics: circling behind the birds to drive them towards the barn, tossing cracker crumbs in the air toward them, retreating to his house to see if they'd flutter into the barn on their own. Nothing worked. He, a huge alien creature, had terrified them; the birds could not understand that he actually desired to help.

He withdrew to his house and watched the doomed sparrows through a window. As he stared, a thought hit him like lightning from a clear blue sky: If only I could become a bird - one of them - just for a moment. Then I wouldn't frighten them so. I could show them the way to warmth and safety. At the same time moment, another thought dawned on him. He had grasped the whole principle of the Incarnation.

A man becoming a bird is nothing compared to God's becoming a man. The concept of a sovereign being as big as the universe He created, confining Himself to a human body was - and is - too much for some people to believe.

Christmas is a timely reminder that God did indeed become a man. Because of Jesus, because He died for our sins and because He rose from the grave, the Christian faith has substance. Just as Swindoll wrote, He promises you not merely a temporary barn for overnight shelter but a permanent home with Him, eternal in heavens ... if you will only come.

The bible also says that "you are worth more than many sparrows." (Matthew 10:31). God is aware of everything that happens even to sparrows, and you are far more valuable to him than they are. You are so valuable that God sent his only Son to die for you. Because God places such value on you, you need never fear personal threats or difficult trials.

source: LAB; Come Before Winter, photos from internet

What Christmas Means for Us

What Christmas Means to Me & My Wife? For us, Christmas begins in our heart! It is about receiving the greatest gift God has given us with a grateful heart.

Christmas is, firstly, looking up and thanking God for everything that He has done. Second, it is a time to look back and reflect on the year that has passed by. Third, it is a time to look forward with hope to a promising year ahead. Finally, Christmas is a good time to look around & appreciate our friends and loved ones whom God has blessed us with.

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Below is a slideshow of photos we took over this Christmas season.

We thank you for impacting our lives in different ways. Our prayer for everyone today is taken from Numbers 6:24-26.

“May our GOD bless you and protect you; May the LORD smile on you and be gracious to you. May the LORD show you his favor and give you his peace.”

A Greater View of Self

One more posting on The Ugly Duckling. Before that, here is a video clip of The Ugly Duckling, Walt Disney version.

The ugly duckling does not fit in. He is mobbed for being too different, too big, and too ugly. Similarly, many in the workplace feel discriminated against for not fitting the mold, whether because of gender, race, religion, education, or temperament. While such judgments can be hurtful, the serious damage occurs only if we adopt other people’s opinions as our own.

Not surprisingly, the ugly duckling develops a pitiful self-image. When a flock of birds are surprised, he thinks they fly up because he is hideous, and when a hunting dog doesn’t retrieve him, he reasons, “I’m so disgusting that even the dog doesn’t feel like biting me".

Leaving negative voices behind: Like the duckling, many of us have a harsh inner critic who constantly reminds us of our shortcomings and undermines our self-esteem… We need to leave these false voices behind before we can hear our own true voice. (p. 57).

After escaping the abuse in the duck yard and the violence in the marsh, the duckling finds safety with an old woman and her cat and hen. Unlike the mother duck, who simply conforms, the cat and the hen want control. They regularly preface their statements with, “We and the world!” as they think they are half of the world, and “what is more, the very best half.” They are like managers who see themselves as the brains of the company, and the best brains at that, or like recalcitrant coworkers who feel superior to management as they resist every change.

Stuck in a corner, the duckling begins to long for the water, wishing he could splash it over his head and dive way down to the bottom. The hen thinks his nonsensical yearning is caused by idleness and tells him to get busy. Fortunately, the duckling disregards the hen’s advice and decides to follow his longing.

Asserting oneself : Most of us have a bossy hen in our life. We can easily spot her in a parent, an in-law, a spouse, friend, colleague, or manager, but we often fail to hear her clucking away in our own heads. She is the responsible, close-to-the-ground voice that squzwks: “You can’t pay attention to your longing right now; it would hurt your career.” “You can’t, you don’t have the time.” “You can’t, others are counting on you.” Though her no-nonsense attitude helps us handle practical matters, we cannot let her run our life. If we do, we will become too busy to think and too close-minded to learn, and we will grow old before our time.

In the fall, the duckling gets a glimpse of what he may become as he sees a flock of magnificent swans fly up and begin their migration. The vision of the bird is unsettling, yet also compelling, and it sustains him through the harsh winter.

Finding oneself Approaching one’s greatness can be terrifying. While we feel safe viewing something extraordinary from afar, we get frightened when it comes straight toward us and says, “Join us!” We fear that we will not measure up, that we will embarrass ourselves. We would rather not take the risk, so we pull back. Yet, only when we dare to engage with those we consider “great” may we see our true essence.

Reflection: The ugly duckling’s identity develops through the tale, and similarly, each of us has our own inner journey to make.

Do you sometimes look around and think, “I don’t belong here”? Do you how your own with opinionated hens? To whom are you drawn, with whom would you like to spend time, from whom would you love to learn?”

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source: The Ugly Duckling Goes to Work

The Ugly Duckling

“When we heed our longing, we grow into our ‘swanlike’ nature.”

Most of us would have heard of The Ugly Duckling story. This is a story about self discovery. Written by Hans Christian Henderson (1805-1875), it is the most autobiographical of the Danish author's works. H.Topsoe-Jensen wrote, "H.C. Hendeson just like the ugly duckling, was the poor one, dependent on benefactors who did not understand him, tormented and mistreated, full of feelings of inferiority, enduring long and difficult times troubled by doubts about his own worth, but deep inside secretly convinced that the ‘hour of reckoning’ would come".

There was nothing romantic about H.C. Andersen’s childhood. Not only was his family poor, but it was also less than respectable. His parents barely married before he was born, his grandmother had been jailed for having too many illegitimate children, his grandfather was in the lunatic asylum, and his illegitimate half-sister worked in a brothel. Furthermore, he was an effeminate and ugly boy, with feet that were too big, limbs that were too long, and eyes that were too small. Yet, through his own merit, H.C. Andersen made his way to Copenhagen, gained royal patronage, and became one of the best-loved authors in the world.

The Story (an abridged version):

One summer, close to the moat of a manor house, a mother duck was nesting. One by one the eggs cracked, but an uncommonly large one remained. An old duck insisted it was a turkey egg and warned of the mother that turkeys were afraid of water. When it finally cracked, a large, ugly duckling tumbled out. Fearing he was indeed a turkey, the mother thought, “into the water with him, even if I have to kick him in.”

She brought her brood down to the moat, and one after the other the ducklings plopped in and they all floated splendidly, including the ugly one. “No, that’s no turkey!” thought the mother, “He’s my own alright!”

Once in a duck yard, the others picked on the ugly one for he was so different. The ducks bit him, the hens pecked him, and even the girl who came to feed them kicked him. His sisters and brothers said they hoped the cat would take him, and eventually even the mother wished him far away…

… the duckling loved floating and diving, but the other creatures continued to reject him. One fall evening the duckling noticed a flock of beautiful white birds with long, graceful necks: They were swans! The majestic creatures spread their wings and flew away toward warmer climates. The duckling felt strangely connected. Although they soon disappeared from sight, there was no way he could forgot those stunning creatures.

Winter came …. and finally spring returned and the duckling tested his wings. They made a strong swooshing sound as they carried him to a beautiful garden. When he landed on the water, he saw the majestic birds again, but this time they were coming toward him… He feared they might hack him to death for being so hideous. Accepting his fate, he bowed his head toward the surface of the still water and suddenly he saw his own reflection – he was himself a swan!

His Response:

“Then he felt quite shy and put his head under his wing – he did not know what to do. He was too happy! But he was not proud, for a good heart is never proud! He thought about how he had been mistreated and mocked, and now he heard everyone say that he was the loveliest of all the lovely birds. The lilacs bowed to him, … and the sun shone so warm and bright. And then he puffed up his feathers, lifted his slender neck, and rejoiced with all his heart; “I never dreamt there could be so much happiness when I was the ugly duckling.”

So what is the morale of this story? Mette Norgaard, in her book, The Ugly Duckling Goes to Work, argues that we do not succeed in life by having an enviable career; we succeed by finding where we belong and becoming the person we were meant to be. Just because we live with certain people, that does not mean we belong with them; we belong with those who share or encourage our longing. Also, just because we grow older, that does not mean we grow into who we were meant to be.

We grow into our essence only when our false self-images die and our true self is born.

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source: Mette Norgaard, The Ugly Duckling Goes to Work

When I Became a Christian

“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believeth in Him shall have eternal life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but the world through him might be saved.” (John 3:16-17)

Next week, I would have been a Christian for exactly 24 years! I was rummaging through my old stuff the other day when I came across a testimony that I wrote on 8 April, 1986 (just four months after I became a Christian). The structure follows an inspiring testimony of a pastor in China. I am happy to share my story:

14th December 1985, I accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and my Saviour. Most of my university friends were surprised with my decision.

photo: 16th birthday

My life before I was a Christian: As a teenager, I am no different from any other teenagers. Just like everyone, I wanted to be happy and happiness to me means freedom, power and wealth. Whatever I do, I wanted to be the best: the top student, the greatest doctor, or the wealthiest property tycoon. I normally carry a smile on my face and many indeed regarded me as one of the happier persons around. But I realized that my happiness was only external because it depended on my circumstances: If things were going great for me, I feel great. When things are not going well and out of control, I feel lousy.

Another thing about me is that I could not stand loneliness. Whenever I’m alone, I would feel lonely and would often ponder about the meaning of life. Not able to find any good answers, I would feel empty and low. So, I kept myself occupied under piles of books and flowed along with the social activities in the university. Whenever I gave myself to study and sports, my spirit would rise. In college, I also took up the executive position of Sports Secretary of the BEMS Society, partly to serve and partly for the prestige and its value add to my resume.

photo: Kent Ridge Hall, NUS (1987)
My attitude towards Christianity: By nature, I am curious and always keen to learn. Whilst I would ponder over many problems, but whenever the issue of Christianity was raised I would be hard hearted. I had a cold attitude towards Christianity. Somehow, I would react negatively towards Christianity, but not to other religions. Looking back, I really do not understand why. Perhaps, it is because some Christians I knew were either too pushy about their faith or I was turned off by their “holier than thou” attitude.

This continued until I heard someone in campus said that “religion should have the power to change one’s life.” That statement caught my attention and from that day onwards, I began to seek what is the actual meaning of religion. To my 20th year, I have always considered myself a free thinker, although I would declare I am of a certain religion when I had to fill in my particulars on official application forms etc.

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In campus, I met a group of Christians whom I observed had something different about their lives. One thing I admired them was that, unlike many of us, their happiness is not dependent on circumstances. I was won over by their sense of friendship. I started reading the Bible, I started asking question, and I started following the weekly radio broadcast (Sunday, 6.30 pm) secretly.

The day I became a Christian: On 14 December 1985, I accepted an invitation from a classmate to attend a Christian service at the National Stadium. The evangelist, Reinhard Bonke, used a very simple analogy to explain the cleansing power of Jesus Christ. Like a bar of soap, the evangelist stated that no matter how much knowledge you possess about a soap (even if you possess a PhD), you will not be able to experience its cleansing power unless you use it personally. I found myself agreeing with the preacher and told myself that I must try out the soap. After all, there is no harm trying, right? … if it doesn’t work, I can always say that I have tried and it doesn’t work for me!

At the end of the service, I found my way among a multitude of people going down to the field to pray to receive Jesus Christ into their lives. I remember telling the counselor who attended to me that I don’t want to pray the “sinners’ prayer. Instead, my prayer went something like this, “Jesus, I agree with the analogy used by the preacher. I am willing to use the soap for one month. Show me within this period who you are...” At that moment, I did not experience any sensation.

While I was travelling home, I realized that I would face opposition from my family and possibly, ridicules from my close friends. Doubts arose. I feared losing my lifestyle; I feared having to make sacrifices. I wondered if I have made the right decision.

Four months later: Now, I can tell you that I hadn’t made the wrong decision. Since that evening, my life was gradually changed. From one aspect, I start to experience true happiness and mental peace that are not influenced by circumstances. It wasn’t so much the absence of conflict or problems but the ability to cope with them. I can also control my emotional needs and desires better. I am no longer afraid of being alone. I also found my perspective of Christianity changed. I now have faith, I have purpose and I have the will to live a righteous life….

I am clearly aware of the change that had taken place in me. I became zealous for the way of the Lord. I no longer have the will to pass my days aimlessly but to live a fulfilled live through Jesus Christ, for the glory of God. Within me, there is an excitement that made me want to tell others of the good news I have received and experienced. Just like the verse of a popular song,

“that’s what it is with God’s love; Once you experience it, you want to pass it on.”

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What I have done is to share what I’ve witnessed and experienced personally. I hope it bring forth understanding, comfort and encouragement to those who are tired and confused with the meaning of life. Christianity is not something that can be forced onto someone. God has given each of us a free will to make choices and the decision is ultimately ours. But his invitation still stands, if anyone opens his or her heart, Jesus will be delighted to enter. I find this prayer helpful for those who want to receive Christ:

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“Jesus, I acknowledge and confess my flaws and sins. I hear that you love me and died on the cross for me. Thank you. I trust you as my Saviour and my Lord. Make me the person you have created me to be. Amen”

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p/s - I found out recently that Gurmit Singh, who is a popular show host, actor and comedian in Singapore, also prayed to receive Christ at same the Reihart Bonke mission. Gurmit shared his testimony (at our church's anniversary celebration last year) that he accepted Christ on Dec 13, 1985, which is just one day before mine.

On the Road: Tallahassee & Atlanta

Question: What is the capital of Florida state?

Answer: Tallahassee!

Huh, where exactly is it located? It is located north-west of Florida, just across the border from Georgia state.

Well, we will be spending four days in Tallahassee (photo on the right), visiting a friend. Our journey will take us via Singapore-Tokyo-Atlanta (20 hours by air, excluding stopovers) and then Atlanta-Tallahassee (6 hours, by car) .

After Tallahassee, we go back to Atlanta where we will be staying for another 3 days. I will be attending and presenting a research paper at the annual ASSA meeting.

We leave for the airport in 2 hours time, and will be back on January 7. Until then, our prayer for you is that may 2010 be an exceedingly prosperous year for you. May whatever you plan and do prosper and bear fruits in abundance.

Scripture for 2010: "Blessed is the man ... whose delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law he meditates day and night. He is like a tree planted by streams of water which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever he does prospers." - Psalms 1:1-3